whooot!
gongg xi fa cai =))
papa bought a new dress for me..preety pretty..blue de
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new yr eve..watch fireworks and bian pao with jor..den went shopiing for goodies...hehs..bought coconut...kena squashed like mad at the junction..so funn!soO..xin nian qi fen!no train or bus home..took cab
had diner wif aunt and family...den met dear to go chun dao he pan...walked and walked...no bus home..in the end took cab again...rich ah
26th FEB! main exam day!!!5 subjects to take..wth KNS...humph...5 days in a row
Thursday, February 22, 2007
Friday, February 09, 2007
Thursday, February 08, 2007
Love is Patient
We expect our spouse to cater to us immediately after one reminder or two. When we don’t get what we want and at the time desired, we become irritated or angry. But being patient means allowing, accommodating and accepting the other person’s ideas, values, personality and mannerism. So we need to constantly remind ourselves: “Am I loving when I don’t accommodate my spouse’s ways? Do I show love when I don’t accept my spouse’s point of view?” We know for certain that we do not practice love at that particular moment since a loving heart is a patient heart.
Little things inevitably happen in our lives and in our homes. Misunderstanding and conflict come to every home. During such moments, we get angry and sulk. We tend to blame: Why must I suffer the hurt and tantrum? Why should I bear the injury? Why must I endure the accusation? Why should I accept the slight? But, for any family relationship to flourish we need patience to humbly resolve the conflict. And, patience means accepting, bearing, enduring, over-looking, suffering the slights, shortcomings, blame, accusation, tantrums, injuries and hurts, without retaliation. Thus we must regularly ask: “Am I spending time to patiently cultivate the family relationship? Have I been patient to grow our relationship? Do I neglect to improve our relationship because I am impatient?
In order to be able to develop this loving patience we have to learn to forgive readily and endlessly.
Patience means accepting, enduring, suffering the slights, injuries, hurts inflicted by people
It is only patience that will help people become better than they are and make us better than we are.
We expect our spouse to cater to us immediately after one reminder or two. When we don’t get what we want and at the time desired, we become irritated or angry. But being patient means allowing, accommodating and accepting the other person’s ideas, values, personality and mannerism. So we need to constantly remind ourselves: “Am I loving when I don’t accommodate my spouse’s ways? Do I show love when I don’t accept my spouse’s point of view?” We know for certain that we do not practice love at that particular moment since a loving heart is a patient heart.
Little things inevitably happen in our lives and in our homes. Misunderstanding and conflict come to every home. During such moments, we get angry and sulk. We tend to blame: Why must I suffer the hurt and tantrum? Why should I bear the injury? Why must I endure the accusation? Why should I accept the slight? But, for any family relationship to flourish we need patience to humbly resolve the conflict. And, patience means accepting, bearing, enduring, over-looking, suffering the slights, shortcomings, blame, accusation, tantrums, injuries and hurts, without retaliation. Thus we must regularly ask: “Am I spending time to patiently cultivate the family relationship? Have I been patient to grow our relationship? Do I neglect to improve our relationship because I am impatient?
In order to be able to develop this loving patience we have to learn to forgive readily and endlessly.
Patience means accepting, enduring, suffering the slights, injuries, hurts inflicted by people
It is only patience that will help people become better than they are and make us better than we are.
Wednesday, February 07, 2007
swinging!~~~
it has been so long since i woke up MYSELF at 7 plus to come to sch...
heee...had csas "test" ya cute test...ez ez
later having FC lab test...kinda scared le
let me tell you:
you lead your life... i lead mine
from now onwards, i wun give a damn on wad attitude alrites
im utterly dissapointed wif u
a total lost of trust
a total lost of hope
gosh..wad am i doing here with my life...
ruining it with my own hands
it has been so long since i woke up MYSELF at 7 plus to come to sch...
heee...had csas "test" ya cute test...ez ez
later having FC lab test...kinda scared le
let me tell you:
you lead your life... i lead mine
from now onwards, i wun give a damn on wad attitude alrites
im utterly dissapointed wif u
a total lost of trust
a total lost of hope
gosh..wad am i doing here with my life...
ruining it with my own hands
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